when i ask u to listen,
and u start giving me advice,
u have not done what i've asked..
When i ask u to listen
n u feel u have to do something to solve my problem,
u have failed me,
strange as that may seem,
When i ask you to listen to me
and u begin to tell me why i shouldn't feel dat way,
u are trampling on my feelings,
LISTEN!!
all i ask is that you listen,
dont talk or do-just hear me,
advice is cheap...
when u do something for me that i can n need to do myself,
u contribute to my fear and inadequacy,
so please listen n just hear me
and if u want to talk,
wait a minute for ur turn
and i will listen to you~
-ainur-